I am a young man married with two boys,fatherhood has its perks and demands and from January to December the Bills are going to start gushing in like a broken down dam,and you must settle them,you cant just wish them away.
I will be five years in marriage this August and i think i have earned some stripes to give newbies in marriage a few tips or better still some survival strategies as they navigate the deep waters of ''mariagenia''.
i have come to understand that money is a vital component of the relations of marriage and is not one that can be substituted with the fancy Four later words called LOVE,don't get me wrong i believe in LOVE but there more to marriage than those woozy dreamy Ecstasy we feel when we are in the company of our love.
You get to see that except for the very spiritual when the bills come and there is no money to pay, daggers get drawn and battle formations are set up for the showdown which could be silent or rowdy.when this happens i term it the classical case of ''Bills intimidation''
Now you will are going to ask me,how do i not get intimidated my bills? and my answer as always will be get another stream of income,let the money flow into your home,try something new that in some years to come will become an investment for the whole family.
Don't let your children ask you tomorrow what you were doing while others were signing up.that sowing your seeds now and you will never have to be intimidated by the bills that you will have to pay tomorrow,do the right thing and start working on starting a rseidual income business.will be talking more of that in my next post so stay tuned...
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I will be five years in marriage this August and i think i have earned some stripes to give newbies in marriage a few tips or better still some survival strategies as they navigate the deep waters of ''mariagenia''.
i have come to understand that money is a vital component of the relations of marriage and is not one that can be substituted with the fancy Four later words called LOVE,don't get me wrong i believe in LOVE but there more to marriage than those woozy dreamy Ecstasy we feel when we are in the company of our love.
You get to see that except for the very spiritual when the bills come and there is no money to pay, daggers get drawn and battle formations are set up for the showdown which could be silent or rowdy.when this happens i term it the classical case of ''Bills intimidation''
Now you will are going to ask me,how do i not get intimidated my bills? and my answer as always will be get another stream of income,let the money flow into your home,try something new that in some years to come will become an investment for the whole family.
Don't let your children ask you tomorrow what you were doing while others were signing up.that sowing your seeds now and you will never have to be intimidated by the bills that you will have to pay tomorrow,do the right thing and start working on starting a rseidual income business.will be talking more of that in my next post so stay tuned...
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